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| Constance with her children ©Facebook/Constance Hall |
BLOGGER Constance Hall has opened up about her teenage sex life in a bid to warn girls to take control.
In a shockingly frank blog – which she warns family members not to read – the Perth mother reveals she rushed into sex at High School and urges teen queens to own their sexuality.
She writes: “A queen’s sexuality is hers and she is 100% entitled to it.
“Sex is for 2 people (or 3 or more) that are both in the mood.
“Teenage queens, if you’re not HORNY (I'm going to keep saying that word until you finally stop cringing) you’re not ready.
“Because sex is hilarious and fun and most of all it is to stimulate and satisfy you both.
“It is not Christmas it is not really about
giving, give and take or f*** off.”
The 32-year-old spoke about losing her virginity before she was ready.
She blogged; “When I first started having sex (if you can call it that) in my high school years my sexuality didn't feel like mine. I didn't feel like I owned it, I kind of felt like I was given it to offer the boys, to get them to like me.
“I mean your parents always tell you not to do it until you’re ready, but how do you know if you’re ready?
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| Constance with her youngest child. © Facebook/Constance Hall |
“Well I didn't know, I was always that teenager who was eager to grow up, so sex was something I was dying to cross off the list.
“The problem with this is that I wasn't the one thing that I should have been before embarking on my road to (s***) sex. I wasn't Horny!!!”
Constance, who has more than 3,000 followers on her Facebook blog, goes on to slam society for teaching girls that male orgasms are more important than women’s.
She writes: “So many girls in high school had given oral sex yet few of us had received it.
“Even into my young adult years I often think about receiving a good head job and all I can really remember is lying there, feeling awkward, being too concerned with what my generous lover was thinking to really enjoy what he was offering me. Looking at the ceiling wondering if the vag is up to scratch?
“So many women decline the offers of a southern venture because we are concerned that we might have disco fanny.. Which is really valid and respectful but I've never had a man decline a late night blowy because he was worried about disco balls? Hmm...
She adds: “So I've analysed my sexuality and I have come to the conclusion that as a young women I subconsciously believed his pleasure was more important than mine.
“Despite being raised by a powerhouse of a single mum, despite having a woman-respecting dad, I still had these weird cringe factor about my own sexuality.
“How was that even installed into my brain?
“I gave more head than I received, I wasn't concerned at all by my orgasm yet I treated men's orgasms like some sort of holy miracle, the be all end all lord of sex.”
The mum-of-two concludes: “I want young queens to grow older and themselves in a world that values their orgasm, I want them to feel vaginal pride, sexual pride.
“I want to bring it to be light, I feel proud of my sexual history, entitled to my sexual future and I want orgasm equality.”
Constance’s previous posts on body image have gone viral and under her hashtag #LikeAQueen she has encouraged women to share snaps of their ‘flawed’ bodies.
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